Be wary of ... Adult pads and diapers
These should only be used as a last resort, or as a temporary tool while you try to fix your incontinence issues.
The longer you use them, and the longer you depend on them, the weaker your muscles will become. If you don't use your pelvic and bladder muscles, you will lose your pelvic and bladder muscles.
Studies have estimated that people who get used to pads and diapers end up spending almost $1000 per year on them.